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A kiss, is just a kiss.
Right? Wrong!!!

Kissing is one of the most important parts about a sexual encounter. It lets you know what you're getting yourself into. If the kisses seem rushed or over eager, you're probably looking at a quick one-nighter and maybe a quick breakfast after it's all said and done; you might even have a phone number that doesn't work (especially if the kissing is followed by a quick hand job-your first inter-racial sexual experience- in the girl's room of Blu in NYC----breakfast only happens because the sun is coming up and neither of you can think of a clean way to end thing without making it more awkward than the ensuing meal...).

On the other hand, Long, passionate kisses could mean you either have a romantic fool who will use you by candle light, abuse you with cheap wine and sappy poetry, or someone who is generally interested in you.

Short quick pecks can be someone who is insecure and interested in you, or someone who has bet a round of beers that they could get into your pants within the next half hour, but doesn't really want to commit.

Someone that won't kiss you at all? He's either straight and pretending to make his girlfriend happy, he's one of those people that refuses to kiss until they're really in love, or he's a total slut who thinks that kissing is the ultimate taboo. Ask him for a blow job and you'll be squealing for mercy, but don't expect much in the terminal or romantic areas.

What you're looking for is ultimately up to you. Occasionally, you might not want to turn down that one night stand. Other times, a one night stand might be enough to make your dam crack and fill your life with an emotional lake it'll take months to drain. Of course, these quick notes aren't always going to be accurate. A smooth player, stalking the clubs at night, can be a flavorful enticement, and even be the best kisser in the world. You might want to fall into his trap, you may want to jump off a cliff by the end of the night. Things might go well, and you'll never want to leave his house again (then he kicks you out wearing the filthy clothes you wore the night before trudging-that's the only word for it-down Bourbon Street. Just be glad you escaped with your life.) Whatever the case, you should be prepared to read into kisses. You can learn more than you could ever glean from being pounded in the rear. You might even learn enough to know that you don't want him to be the one doing the pounding...


In general, if you like the way he kisses, you'll like the way he is in a more intimate setting. If he's a bad kisser, you might as well put your clothes back on, go home, and jerk off. It'll be a better experience for both the big you and the little one. Especially in a week when you find out the little you is puking puss... The key to good kissing is to actively use your lips. I've kissed guys that didn't use their lips at all. They would just tense up their lips and leave them like that. It felt like I was trying to kiss a statue(or a straight boy).

Relax or at least, make a mental effort to relax, your lips. Allow them to be soft and pliable. One VERY VERY important thing to remember is to NOT open your mouth as wide as you possibly can. This leaves your partner drowning in the all too well known "BLOWFISH" effect... where you feel like you're being swallowed by an ever growing fish mouth. If your partner continually wipes his lips (and cheeks, and chin, and nose and ears...) off after you kiss, you're probably guilty of puffing up and hosing down your partner with poisonous slobber from the back of your throat. This is a BIG No-no. Keep your mouth closed gently... Don't try to force your lips together, but let them rest closed. The cute boy who's eyes you're staring into has the job of opening your mouth... as you do his. This counteracts both the STATUE and BLOWFISH effects.

As you start to kiss, try gently brushing your partner's cheek with your lips, or run them along his neck just barely making contact with his skin. Light touches are great for kissing. Pressing too hard can give the impression of a Hoover Wet Vac. Unless you're going for a Hickey, gentle is better. If you're into a bit rougher sex, patience is a good practice. Start gently then kiss harder and harder until you're bruising your lips from the stress. If you start doing this too soon, however, your boy toy may not be in the proper mind state to appreciate your affections. Sadists may like pain, but they like it because their bodies are imbalanced during emotional and physical states of arousal. It can take time to get them to this point. If you go too fast, they may become turned off and frightened, leaving you with a short and unfulfilling sexual encounter.

During the warm up/foreplay, don't be afraid to use your breath. Nothing gets some boys hotter than feeling someone's warm breath on their neck, or someone gently (and I mean gently-the wind tunnel effect is hardly ever pleasurable... you spend 20 minutes waiting for them to get their hair done again...) blowing in their ear. It always sends goose bumps down my neck, back, and arms. When you use your tongue on his neck, gently run it around his earlobe and ear. If you feel like it, suck on his earlobe - but not his ear. If you're going to do the ear blowing thing cover his entire ear with your mouth and gently exhale. Try not to inhale while doing this, and don't exhale too quickly. No one wants to stop in the middle to wait for hair gel to dry. Gentle foreplay with your partner is extremely sensual, and builds up sexual tension. It can also serve to establish nonverbal communication between the two of you. His reactions to this sort of foreplay will give your first indications of his overall sexual responsiveness.

If you can't get him worked up during the foreplay, chances are you'll be in for a disappointment when it comes to the actual act. Despite common belief that foreplay will get you off quicker, it actually extends the time to ejaculation. This is why a "QUICK FUCK" can sometimes take longer than the spur of the moment "OMG TAKE ME NOW!" kitchen scene. If you're both in the mood, you're more likely to enjoy the overall experience and get each other off. If one of you isn't really into it, it will take the active partner forever to get the passionless one off, and if he has no desire before hand... well.. don't count on his hand to help you out... As things progress, you'll probably start using your tongue. Run or flick your tongue across his lips, moistening them slightly without actually kissing him. When you do finally kiss, make sure to lick your own lips from time to time to ensure their softness. It's not very pleasant to kiss someone whose lips have the texture of sandpaper.
When starting to French kiss, open your mouth just slightly. This is where the BLOWFISH effect is often the worst. I can't tell you how many times I went to French someone and he opened his mouth widely sticking his tongue all the way out. It's like kissing a mine shaft with the miners seeking a way out somewhere past your tonsils. You're trying to kiss here... not excavate a collapsed mine shaft!

Let your partner accept the tip of your tongue into his mouth, and vice versa. As you get more intense try sucking lightly on your partner's tongue - be careful not to suck too hard, making him feel like you're trying to rip his tongue from his mouth. Cannibals seem to be fairly common... at least those eating tongues. Remember, you are not in the movie Jeepers Creepers... and you don't have wings(wrong kind of fairy)...

Try gently nibbling or sucking on your partner's lips. Feel their texture, softness, and even their taste with your tongue. Though it's generally subtle and easily unnoticed, the lips of different boys do actually have their own unique flavor. (Usually in an assortment of your favorite alcoholic beverage...) Be a creative kisser

Always be aware of your teeth. It's not really pleasant to be French kissing someone and feeling his teeth scrape the area around your mouth. Though teeth can effectively be used for fun. A light bite or nibble here and there occasionally can be a display of passionate sexual aggression :-) However... (and this may only be a personal thing) being slobbered on doesn't really do anything for me. If you're going to be indiscriminately licking things, try to keep them places I won't mind being wet. This means that the face is off limits, the neck is touchy, and odd places I can't wipe off if I feel I need to... just... be courteous.

When kissing someone - kiss him the same way you like being kissed. Think back and remember a guy you really enjoyed kissing. How did he kiss you? What was so different about the way he kissed you? Try imitating those methods with your future partner(s).

Most guys kiss with their eyes closed. Ignore the impulse to close your eyes when kissing and try opening them occasionally. It adds a new perspective to the experience, and can be a real turn on. Of course if you've been smoking pot or using shrooms (NO SEX ON DRUGS!) You may not want to do this for fear of the feeling of falling into their eyes and exchanging souls.


When kissing other parts of your partner's body see if you can find his sensitive areas without asking him where they are. Explore his body with your lips, and pay attention to his feedback. Does he tense up? Does he hold you tighter? Does his breathing change? Is he smiling, etc.?

Some places you might want to try are; his love handles, the insides of his thighs, his belly button, his nipples, armpits, the small of his back, the backs of his knees, and so on. The hot spots vary greatly from one boy to the next, as do degrees of sensitivity. Again, closely read his feedback, or he may end up being bored when you're earnestly doing your best to stimulate him. If all else fails, or you're not sure how he's responding, ASK HIM! Talking about things is often the best way to get him to loosen up and let you try things. If there's something he's doing you don't like, let him know. If he's doing something AMAZING tell him. Fantasies? Talk about them... make them come true. You'll get more pleasure out of the experience, and you'll learn things you may want to either use again or forget completely. Either way, it's better to know than to miss out on the knowledge and be a drag in the sack.

Don't be afraid to use your imagination - be creative, be playful, have fun with it. If you make an effort to be in-tune with your partner, chances are he'll return the favor and both of you will have a better time.

If you're a guy that says, kissing is not my thing, then you've just wasted about 5 to 10 minutes of your time reading this (Or you could try to get into it. Maybe you just never kissed someone that knew what they were doing before. Maybe it was you that was the bad kisser. Give it another chance, then let it slide down into the pit of Anti-Fetishes)

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