Wanna get in touch with your feminine side? Other than wearing a skirt, or listening to Madanna? Well, here's some tips about how to make it a little more enjoyable. Mainly tips for first time users, but you never know what manical wisdom can come from looking at things with a new mind. First off, DON'T just lay there and take it!
So he's seduced you, drug you back to his place, and you dunno how it happened, but you're laying on your back in some strangers bed with him inside you (less Strawberry Long Islands next time, ok?) Well, how it happened?
It's a little late to worry about that. Just make sure you do everything you can in order to make this as easy on you as possible. Hopefully you met someone nice that will hold your had (metaphorically) through the whole thing and you won't need to have read a word on this page. Right. And in case you ended up in some strange bed with some stranger and you don't wanna leave everything up to him... well... use this info to fall back on.
I guess to start off with, you need to decide if it's a good day/night/time to get fucked. Hopefully you'll be able to arange things in time to quit if it isn't. You know that stupid underwear rule? The one where you get hit by a car? Right... if you're dead you're not gonna care if they were clean or not... but this is a little different. If you go out with the intention of taking them off, it's nice if they're clean. That's not all you should have clean though...
I hate messes. Unless you're into SCAT (and if you are, may the gods help you...) you want to be sure to clean out your backside.
If you know that there's a possibility that you're going to get fucked that evening. It's a good idea to use the appropriate facilities and
'purge' yourself before leaving home. This means taking a good
long hard crap, then showering and making sure you are thoroughly clean down there Soap of some kind is good.
Getting a lathery finger or two up a few inches is always welcome. If you're not comfortable putting a finger up there to clean it out, you don't need to be using it.
Another bit of prep work you can do, is to properly moisturize down there using a water based hand/body lotion. This helps lube things up before you get to the point of thinking about lube. It soaks in a bit, and can make longer sessions more comfortable.
If you find yourself fortunate enough to be with a datethat's
rather sizably endowed (again, read; BIG FREAKING DICK), look at it as a challenge. I recommend starting with a position where he is on his back and you sit
down on top of his cock. This is usually the easiest way for you to get used to having a cock inside of you, and especially one that is larger
than what you're normally used to. It also allows you to have complete control over how much goes inside you, and control how fast it gets there. Once you're used to him, you can try all the
different positions under the sun.
This position also works best if you're inexperienced or haven't gotten any for a while. If you have never been fucked, or haven't been fucked too often. If
it truly is your first timegetting it you might wanna try this; as his cock is working its way inside of you, push against it
with your ass like your taking a dump. Fight the urge to clamp your ass shut, because then it will start to hurt even more.
For some reason, (and here I'm completely clueless) I've found it easier to get someone large inside me than somone smaller. It may be the width thing more than anything. It's less like a needle being shoved in there and more like... well... see the fingertip reference on the massage page. The only point I'm trying to make here is that you shouldn't be afraid of something big. It's the small ones that seem to hurt the most. Especially after you get going. The initial stretch is usually the worst for beginners and if it's been a while. Once you get past that, bigger is better. Again, it's not so much the length as it is how big around it is. The longer it is, the longer the possible stroke, but just like a pin being pushed into your finger, someting bigger (like a pencil eraser) is more comfortable.
If you are quick to shoot while getting fucked (like me) and it often cuts the whole experience short, then tell him to let go if it.
This goes back to the communication idea. Just because you're trying to scream his name (or some cuss words if he's pushing too hard) doesn't mean you can't stop things, or say that it hurts.
If he's not listening, then roll over on your stomach and squeeze you're legs together. This accomplishes two things -
it keeps your hand and his hand away from your cock so that you canenjoy the ridelonger, and it
allows you to squeeze the cheeks of your butt together making your ass a lot tighter for your partner. It's also a good
position if you're with a guy that just doesn't seem to be able to cum and you're ready to end the
party in a hurry. This can be because of anything. It's come in handy once or twice when I've had enough and he's starting to rub me the wrong way.
Flipping over and tightening up makes it hard for them to keep going like they have been and they'll either slow down or shoot.
On a more serious note, if you end up being raped, this is a good position to get into. It allowed you to bury your face so he can't hit it, and again, keeps things as short as
possible. Just because you think he's cute, doesn't mean he's not going to rape you, and just because you say you're ready and start doing things doesn't mean you can't
change your mind. Don't be afraid to stop him, and if he isn't willing to stop and you can't over power him, do this and let him get off. Once he's done that grab your clothes
and make a run for it. If you think he really went to far, don't hesitate to call the police. On the other hand, if you just tell him at the last minute not to
cum inside you and he tries to pull out but doesn't, that might be over kill. Rape charges aren't something to mess around with unless you're certain you don't care if
everyone knows, and when they find out, that you're going to stick with your story. If he really did something wrong, do it. If you're just mad at him? This is one thing that will
ruin his entire life.
Sorry. Bad memories. Back to the sex...
After getting laid, you might think you feel loose. Well, compared to normal, you are. That doesn't mean you won't ever be the same. It just means that you stretched your muscles more
than they are used to. Stretching muscles? Hmm... sounds lke a work out. Good idea :) Squeeze the cheeks of your ass together a couple of
times when you're sitting down, or standing. Also try to learn how to get more control over the muscles in your butt, so that you can relax your hole when you need to, and tighten it up
when you want to. This will help you be able to taking things more easily as well as reduce tearing. And should you ever need to get things over with, tighter is always better.
Be an aggressive bottom - don't just lay there - if your partner doesn't seem to take the
initiative - then take it yourself.
If he's getting boring, make him use different positions. Tell
him how you want him to fuck you, fast or slow. Tell him you want him to stroke your cock etc. etc. After all,you are the one that's really
in control here - you decide when the fun starts and when it ends (or at least you should). Communication. Wow. What a wonderful thing.
If you wanna get really kinky, call him on his cell in the middle of things. :) As well as opening up the communication line, those things VIBRATE! :)
Use your imagination, and have him fuck you the way you want to be fucked.
Have FUN!
